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LANGUAGE OF LOVE

They are the different ways in which people express and receive affection. The idea is that each person has a primary way of feeling and expressing love, which may be different from that of their partner or friends.

Identifying and speaking each others love language can improve communication and strengthen relationships.




1. Service.-

Doing things for others, favors, help.

Associated toxic treatment.- Not asking for help



SERVICE

2. Gifts.-

Giving and receiving gifts as a symbol of love.

Associated toxic treatment.- Belief that you do not deserve good things, that your value depends on what you give, feeling that you do not deserve more than what you receive.



GIFTS

3. Words, compliments.-

Verbal expression of love and appreciation.

Associated toxic treatment.- Criticize yourself



WORDS

4. Quality time; physical touch.-

Dedicate time and full attention to the other person. Physical contact, caress, kiss.

Associated toxic treatment.- Isolate you, punish you physically



TOUCH

Attitude.




1. Strong Attitude

We are strong when we express pressure in our relationships with other people and things.



STRONG ATTITUDE

2.  Kind Attitude

We are kind when we show consideration and finesse in our relationship with others.



KIND ATTITUDE

1. Introversion

Ability to feel more alive, more active and capable; in calmer environments and with less stimulation.

It is the ability to go inward; very necessary to find personal talents.



INTROVERT

2. Extroversion

Ability to feel more alive, more active and capable; in social gatherings.

It is the ability to go outwards; very necessary to find opportunities for personal improvement.



OUTGOING

The third aspect to consider, for a constructive relationship, is to be able to establish a horizontal relationship; that is, a relationship of flexibility between leadership, autonomy and collaboration.




1. Be a Leader.- To assume the responsibilities that always come accompanied by opportunities and motivate those around you to improve.



LEADER

2. Be autonomous, To act independently, without waiting for someone to tell you what to do or waiting for someone to do what you think.



AUTONOMOUS

3. Be a Collaborator.- For permanent personal development, greater opportunities and gratitude.



COLLABORATOR

Knowing the main motivation of the people who make up our company, mainly the key people, gives us elements to motivate their permanence in our company.




1. Material Importance.- If material, money, is very important to us and our company does not satisfy this aspect, we will feel the need to look elsewhere for this aspect that is so important to us.



Motivation and material search

2. Emotional importance.- If the emotional aspect is very important to us; be treated well; But, in our company we do not find this factor, we are going to feel the need to look elsewhere for this aspect.



Motivation and emotional search

3. Mental importance.- If the mental aspect is very important to us; know more, learn more things; and in our company we do not find this aspect, we are going to feel the need to look elsewhere.



Motivation and mental search